Dear S ,
Moderately attractive is how most people start out in the morning, and means you ain't ugly. Think about how hard the moderately attractive girls with no tits have it. And the models who attract men who come around just to see if they can get a model, then dump them when their game is over!
Come on, mama, you've got to love all your qualities and learn to harmonize your assets. You wield your breasts like a sword, either hidden away, or unsheathed. Last I checked, there were more options in the closet than plunging necklines and bulky sweaters. Try more tailored shirts that coast the body and flatter your figure but leave something to the imagination. Buy your sweaters a little less baggy, but go easy on the skin tight. Classy and sexy at the same time also hints that you have something going on besides tits. They'll want to know more.
Most importantly, take care of yourself so that you look and feel good every day, not just when youčre out at the clubs. When YOU feel you're attractive, other people feel it too. So be confident and let your personality shine.
As for Mr. Right...Right or Wrong, pretty much all men are into breasts. You're the one who's in charge here, make your demands.
- Brooklyn Nympho
Dear Brooklyn Nympho,
My short answer is: It depends. The first thoughts that came to mind when I read your letter is why do you feel strange and what makes you question whether you should feel bad? (And damn, where do you find the time?) Although you say you don't feel that bad, it seems that your behavior doesn't entirely sit well with you. The key to your confusion is asking what motivates your behavior, and whether or not this is what you really want in your life. For example: Have you been hurt before and you are trying to get back at men? Do you feel like you have to prove your ability to get men? Are you lonely and trying to communicate through sex? Or do you have a raging sexual drive and you want to explore your sexuality?
If you decide that you are not satisfied with this lifestyle, then maybe you should take some time to yourself and think about how to pursue what you want in a different way. It won't be that hard to stay home for a while. Dildos work wonders for moments of sexual frustration.
If it's a matter of exploring sex, then why not live your life to the fullest? No promises, no regrets. But I highly recommend looking out for yourself. Hooking up with total strangers can be very dangerous, you never know when you've got a freak on your hands. Also, use safe sex to protect yourself against diseases. There's so little time between meeting a guy and picking him up to learn his vital statistics. You don't want to look back when your nympho stage is over and regret everything.
Bi-Curious in Brooklyn
Dear Bi-Curious in Brooklyn,
I say satisfy your bi-curiousity but be careful about doing that through the sister, it's way too close to home, unless you're looking to be on Jerry Springer. If you care about your boyfriend and you care about his sister, there are a few things to take into consideration. First of all, dating people from the same family usually invites weirdness, so unless your boyfriend is extremely open-minded to the family connection, expect a lot of drama. Being curious as opposed to bi is also tricky, so ask yourself if you are turned on by the sister or the idea of being with women in general. If you're just curious, find some other fun, hot babe, instead of doubly hurting your boyfriend by playing around with his sister.
If you don't care how your boyfriend feels, or he doesn't care, and she's the one you want, how serious is she about you? Start off on a casual note to avoid misleading her.
But it all sounds messy to me. I vote for finding someone new to introduce you to female sex.
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